A simple text message in 2016 connected Jamal Hinton and Wanda Dench, transforming an accidental invitation into a heartwarming Thanksgiving tradition that has captured the attention of many across the United States. Nearly a decade later, the pair continues to celebrate the holiday together, showcasing the power of unexpected friendships.
The story began when Dench mistakenly texted Hinton, whom she thought was one of her six grandchildren, inviting him to Thanksgiving dinner. Skeptical of the message’s authenticity, Hinton, then a 17-year-old high school senior, asked for a photo. When he received a selfie that clearly did not belong to his grandmother, he playfully inquired if he could still join for dinner. Dench welcomed him with open arms, leading to a viral moment that resonated with many.
Their first Thanksgiving gathering was a media sensation, attracting reporters and camera crews eager to capture the unusual relationship. Hinton recalls the chaos: “We couldn’t eat without someone asking us a question. It was crazy, but it was still amazing.” Dench’s late husband, Lonnie Dench, took a special interest in Hinton, keen to know more about the young man who had unexpectedly joined their family celebration.
As the years passed, Dench and Hinton’s bond deepened, surviving personal trials, including Dench’s battle with breast cancer in 2021. During that difficult time, Hinton arranged a virtual Thanksgiving to ensure Dench felt supported. Their annual meet-ups became a source of joy and inspiration, embodying resilience and connection amid life’s challenges.
Hinton, now 26, acknowledges the transformative nature of their friendship. Reflecting on his younger self, he admits, “I feel like I know very little in the world, and I’m just open and willing to listen and learn from anyone now.” He has since become a business owner and youth basketball coach, roles that bring him fulfillment and pride.
Dench, who has experienced significant loss, including the death of her husband due to complications from COVID-19 in 2020, finds comfort in their traditions. Each year, they take time to share what they are thankful for, with Dench consistently noting her gratitude for family, which now includes Hinton.
Their Thanksgiving celebrations have evolved, incorporating new traditions like late-night board games, while also honoring old ones. Dench describes her culinary skills, particularly her acclaimed pumpkin pie, which Hinton has come to love.
This year, the pair will celebrate at Hinton’s aunt’s home in Phoenix, Arizona. Dench, now in better health, looks forward to meeting Hinton’s family for the first time. Together, they are planning a surprise for their families, emphasizing the spirit of the holiday.
The friendship has not only remained strong but has also attracted significant attention. They have partnered with Green Giant, a brand that will cater their Thanksgiving dinner this year, and a Netflix film about their story is currently in the works.
Dench expresses her astonishment at how a simple mistake led to such a profound relationship. “The only thing I can imagine is, our friendship is genuine. It’s not fake,” she said. “If all the media went away, and all the hoopla went away, we would still meet together for Thanksgiving every year.”
As the holiday approaches, their story continues to inspire many, reminding us that sometimes the most unexpected connections can lead to lasting bonds.
