UPDATE: Renowned etiquette expert Miss Manners has provided immediate guidance on a pressing kitchen dilemma faced by hosts across the nation. In a recent column, she addressed a reader’s frustration over a relative who insists on preparing dishes in their kitchen right before meal time, often complicating gatherings.
This situation is especially urgent as many families and friends are gearing up for holiday celebrations, where smooth hosting is paramount. The reader, described as the “last hostess standing,” expressed concern about her relative’s need for excessive space and time for simple tasks.
“If I asked her to bring salt, she would need 3 feet of counter space and 30 minutes to assemble an heirloom salt grinder,” the reader lamented. Miss Manners suggests a practical solution: asking this relative to handle refreshments instead—“preferably in closed containers that do not require mixing.”
This advice comes as gatherings are increasingly vital for maintaining connections, especially during busy holiday seasons. With the ongoing need for social interaction, efficient hosting strategies have never been more critical.
In another pressing inquiry, a reader described a friend who disruptively leaves group outings abruptly, causing discomfort among the remaining guests. Miss Manners recommends addressing this behavior directly with a concerned inquiry: “Wait, what?! You’re going?! Is everything OK?” This approach aims to foster awareness and potentially curb the abrupt exits.
Additionally, Miss Manners tackled a growing trend in event planning where attendees are asked to bring their own cutlery and containers to minimize environmental impact. “Your workplace is playing fast and loose with the words ‘sponsored’ and ‘event,’” she remarked, emphasizing the inconvenience and rudeness of such requests.
As the holiday season approaches, these insights from Miss Manners are more relevant than ever, highlighting the importance of proper etiquette in maintaining social harmony.
Stay tuned for more updates on etiquette and social norms that can enhance your hosting experience during this festive time. For more inquiries, readers can reach Miss Manners at her official website, www.missmanners.com.
