On December 19, 2023, graduates of the University of North Dakota (UND) were encouraged to reflect on their professional readiness during their commencement ceremonies. Jill Cholewa, a distinguished alumna and retired business owner, posed a thought-provoking question: “If you were an employer, would you hire yourself?” This inquiry aimed to inspire personal reflection as the graduates transition into the workforce.
Cholewa addressed the graduating class during three separate ceremonies held at the Chester Fritz Auditorium, which saw a total of 545 undergraduates and 311 graduate students take part. In her speech, she emphasized the significance of genuine, purpose-driven leadership in today’s world, stating, “You don’t need a fancy title to make a difference. You have all the tools you need right here, in your intellect and your character.”
UND President Andrew Armacost also expressed pride in the graduates, acknowledging the challenging weather conditions they braved to attend the ceremonies. “Today is a day of celebration. We’re so glad that you are here,” he said during the morning graduate ceremony.
Cholewa, who graduated from UND in 1977 and 1979, has made significant contributions to the university, including establishing three endowments supporting various academic programs and the volleyball team. She and her husband founded a lumber business in California in 1987 and have actively supported scholarships at UND.
Throughout her speech, Cholewa shared several insights with the graduates, including a list of four reflective questions, eight essential elements of success attributed to actor Denzel Washington, and three vital qualities for achieving and maintaining success in both professional and personal life.
The reflective questions included:
– Would you hire yourself based on your curiosity?
– Would you hire the version of you that gets knocked down, learns from the mistake, and comes back wiser and stronger?
– Would you hire yourself based on your ability to work with others?
Cholewa highlighted Washington’s eight key components for success: hard work, patience, sacrifice, consistency, discipline, self-confidence, a positive attitude, and focus. She underscored the importance of these qualities in navigating the realities of the workforce.
In addition, Cholewa identified three personal qualities she believes are crucial for success: the willingness to listen, the courage to be vulnerable, and a sense of servitude. She encouraged graduates to become active listeners and embrace new perspectives. “The greatest leaders are those who see their roles as one of service to others,” she said.
Cholewa concluded her address by urging graduates to recognize their own growth and to trust in their abilities as they step into the future. “The real value of your degree lies in what you do with it to improve the lives of your colleagues, your community, and the world,” she stated.
This graduation ceremony not only celebrated academic achievements but also provided a platform for graduates to engage in self-reflection, preparing them for the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. As they move forward, Cholewa’s message serves as a guiding principle for personal and professional development.
