UPDATE: Just one week after a harrowing incident involving a domestic violence call in Rochester, N.Y., the community is on high alert. Three police officers and a civilian were shot, prompting urgent discussions about domestic violence as the holiday season approaches.
The Rochester Police Department confirmed that two injured officers have been released from the hospital, but a third remains in critical condition in the ICU at Strong Memorial Hospital. The civilian involved is also hospitalized but expected to survive. In a tragic turn, a fourth officer fatally shot the suspect at the scene.
“I imagine the victim is feeling immense guilt, thinking, ‘I got people killed because I called 911,’” said Antoinette Beard, a domestic violence survivor who has spent decades advocating for victims. Beard emphasizes the emotional turmoil many face when deciding whether to seek help, often feeling helpless and panicked.
According to experts at the Willow Domestic Violence Center, the holiday season triggers a spike in domestic violence cases, with their hotline seeing a significant increase in calls during this time. “It affects all area codes and backgrounds,” stated Carmen Torres-Cong, the center’s director. “The holidays bring people together, but that can also lead to heightened emotions and conflict.”
Torres-Cong insists that isolation can be a crucial warning sign that someone is in an unhealthy relationship. During the holidays, it’s vital for friends and family to be vigilant and ready to offer support. “If you see someone struggling, don’t hesitate to call our hotline for advice on how to help,” she urged. “Our advocates are here for victims and their loved ones.”
Beard, who connects with other survivors through social media, advises those in distress to remain calm and reach out for help. “Tell the police exactly what’s happening, get to a safe place, and always have a backup plan,” she advised. “Make friends with neighbors and identify safe locations you can go to in an emergency.”
The Willow Domestic Violence Center provides a 24/7 hotline for those in need of immediate assistance. Anyone seeking help can call or text (585) 222-SAFE (7233). With the holiday season upon us, now is the time to ensure that no one suffers in silence.
As the community rallies to support victims of domestic violence, it’s clear that awareness and intervention are crucial. The urgency of this issue cannot be overstated—if you or someone you know is in danger, act now.
