Los Angeles, CA — Actor Austin Butler has clarified the status of his relationship with model Emily Ratajkowski, following months of speculation and media chatter. In a recent interview with Vanity Fair, Butler addressed the rumors fueled by their dinner together in New York City last September. He emphasized that their connection remains strictly platonic.
In his own words, Butler stated, “The true answer is that I have a lot of friends and we’re friends and we had dinner.” The pair had been spotted enjoying drinks and conversation at The Waverly Inn in Manhattan’s West Village, and they later appeared together at an afterparty for the premiere of Butler’s latest film, Caught Stealing. Despite the swirling online rumors, Butler remains resolute, insisting he will not allow public perception to dictate his personal life. He expressed his desire for privacy, saying, “I just wanted to hide.” He added, “I’m going to live a constricted, small life because I’m afraid of what other people are going to say or what they’re going to think?”
Butler’s Focus on Personal Growth
Butler, 34, has had a busy year with multiple projects, including his role in the upcoming film The Eddington. Recently, he was spotted in Paris promoting Caught Stealing alongside co-star Zoë Kravitz. While remaining in the public eye, his recent comments suggest a shift towards personal development beyond the Hollywood scene.
He shared his thoughts on relationships, stating, “You get one life. So how can I allow that to hopefully make me a better friend and a better partner — and a better husband one day, and a better father one day, God willing?” This perspective indicates his intent to prioritize personal growth amid the pressures of fame.
Relationship History and Current Priorities
Butler’s romantic life has been a topic of interest for fans and media alike. He previously dated model Kaia Gerber for three years until their split in late 2024, with sources indicating that the relationship “simply ran its course.” Prior to that, he was in a high-profile eight-year relationship with actress Vanessa Hudgens, which ended in 2020.
Ratajkowski, who divorced film producer Sebastian Bear-McClard in 2022, has also been linked to several public figures but has opted for a more private approach to her personal life recently.
Butler’s current focus seems to be more on his craft and family than on romantic rumors. He expressed his joy in taking on the role of “fun uncle” to Ashley Tisdale‘s daughter, Jupiter, stating, “I feel so honored to be a part of her life.” While fans may have hoped for a budding romance, Butler’s statements leave little room for ambiguity — he and Ratajkowski are simply friends.
As discussions about fame and privacy continue, Butler’s insights invite reflection on the balance between public life and personal boundaries. As always, the entertainment world remains abuzz with speculation, but for now, Butler has made his position clear.
