Reflecting on significant moments can often inspire new perspectives for the future. Earlier this month, while drafting a New Year’s message for the Marine Corps League detachment members, I was reminded of a pivotal experience from January 1978. On a cold, early morning, a busload of recruits arrived at the Marine Corps Recruit Depot in Parris Island, South Carolina, marking the beginning of a transformative journey. This experience, now 48 years in the past, serves as a poignant reminder of resilience and personal growth.
The arrival at Parris Island is famously intense, with drill instructors boarding the bus and commanding recruits to fall in on the yellow footprints. This first encounter is part of a rigorous initiation process that shapes the lives of countless young men and women. While the initial chaos can be daunting, it is the beginning of a disciplined and structured life that ultimately leads to personal development.
As I reflect on those formative days, I also think about the wisdom shared by renowned author Norman Vincent Peale. In his writings, he emphasizes the importance of letting go of past failures to embrace a new beginning. His advice resonates as we approach the end of another year. He suggests that to truly move forward, one must actively choose to forget negative experiences. He quotes the Apostle Paul, who encourages individuals to “press on toward the goal” and to leave behind past burdens.
Peale’s insights are particularly relevant as we consider the transition into 2026. He advocates for a fresh start, urging individuals to shed emotional baggage that hinders personal growth. “Get so tired of the old,” Peale writes, “that you are done with it.” This powerful call to action encourages us to confront fears and doubts that may have lingered for too long.
In a similar vein, Peale recommends seeking a deeper spiritual life as a foundation for the new year. He argues that such a pursuit can lead to profound changes within oneself. Those who embrace this journey often find a renewed sense of purpose and clarity.
The idea of “forgiving but not forgetting” is often debated. While some may struggle with this concept, Peale argues that forgetfulness is a crucial step towards healing. By choosing to release past grievances, individuals can create space for growth and positivity. As we stand on the brink of a new year, it is an opportunity to reassess our lives and set intentions that align with our true aspirations.
As we prepare to welcome 2026, let us heed the call to let our stars be born. Each new year offers a chance to redefine our paths, embrace new challenges, and cultivate a spirit of hope. Drawing from the lessons of the past can serve as a guiding light in our quest for a fulfilling future.
In conclusion, the message is clear: as we reflect on our journeys, we can choose to let go of what no longer serves us. By doing so, we create the potential for new beginnings, allowing our true potential to shine. May we all find the courage to embark on this journey in the coming year.
