Frederick James Rose III, a respected community leader and Deacon, passed away peacefully at his home in Redondo Beach, California, on January 22, 2026. He was 80 years old. Born at Camp White near Medford, Oregon, he was the son of Frederick James Rose Jr. and Lydia Gale Thomas. The family relocated to Manhattan Beach when Fred was just six months old, where he would later establish deep roots in the community.
Fred’s educational journey began at American Martyrs School, continuing through Mira Costa High School and El Camino College. From a young age, he demonstrated a commitment to service, compassion, and the belief in love’s supremacy over judgment. This dedication ultimately guided him back to the Catholic faith of his childhood, culminating in his role as a Deacon at American Martyrs Parish.
Throughout his life, Fred was a staunch advocate for labor rights, actively participating in the Student American Federation of Teachers. He was a lifelong Democrat, which made his relationship with his wife, Suzie Alston, particularly intriguing. The couple initially clashed politically, with Suzie identifying as a Conservative Republican. Their differing views sparked lively debates, but these discussions ultimately forged a profound friendship and respect that lasted for over 37 years of marriage.
After completing high school, Fred joined the United States Naval Reserve, serving seven years, including two years on active duty as a Radarman Striker aboard the USS Orleck. His military service earned him the Vietnam Service Medal and the National Defense Service Medal. Following his time in the Navy, he dedicated more than three decades to the United States Postal Service, where he continued his commitment to public service.
In the early 1980s, Fred and Suzie returned to American Martyrs Parish after a period away from the church. Their reintegration into the community was significant, and Fred felt a calling to the Diaconate. After a thorough period of discernment and formation, he accepted this permanent vocation and served for an impressive 25 years. Even in retirement, Fred remained an active volunteer in church ministry, becoming a familiar presence at the Welcome Center.
Fred is remembered for his gentle spirit, generous heart, and unwavering love for his family and friends. He provided wisdom, encouragement, and quiet strength to all who knew him. His family extends heartfelt gratitude to those who supported him in his later years, particularly Ariana and Matt Smith, Vanessa Reyes-Smith, and the dedicated team at American Martyrs.
Preceded in death by his beloved wife, Suzie, and his parents, Fred leaves behind a loving family. He is survived by his cousin, Rhonda; brother, Michael Rose; sister-in-law, Debbie Rose; and several nephews and nieces, including Michael (Vallarie) Rose, Jason Rose, and Brittany (Derrick) Moore. His legacy of faith, service, and love will continue to resonate in the lives he touched.
A Funeral Mass will be held at 2:30 PM on February 28, 2026, at American Martyrs Catholic Church in Manhattan Beach, California. Fred’s contributions to the community and his profound impact on those around him will be celebrated and remembered fondly. He will be deeply missed and forever cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
