UPDATE: Miss Manners has just addressed an urgent etiquette question that’s resonating with many: how to gracefully navigate the dilemma of holding hands during a dinner blessing while maintaining hygiene.
In a recent response, she advised readers grappling with the uncomfortable practice of hand-holding during prayers at family gatherings, especially after washing their hands. This issue has sparked widespread discussions as families come together for meals, and the potential for germs looms large.
Immediate Relevance: As holiday gatherings approach, many are concerned about maintaining cleanliness while adhering to traditional customs. Miss Manners recommends that guests politely excuse themselves right after the prayer to wash their hands a second time, ensuring they can enjoy their meals without worry.
In another pressing query, a reader expressed frustration over her stepsons’ lack of financial consideration during family gatherings. Despite driving a staggering 3,300 miles round-trip twice a year for birthday celebrations, neither son has offered to contribute financially, leading to feelings of resentment.
Miss Manners emphasized that the best approach involves a candid conversation with the husband, as addressing family dynamics can be delicate. She noted that while honesty is crucial, tact and consideration are equally important in maintaining family harmony.
This advice comes as many families are preparing for significant gatherings, making Miss Manners’ insights particularly timely.
Next Steps: Readers are encouraged to share their thoughts and experiences on these pressing etiquette issues as they navigate the complexities of family interactions during festive seasons.
For further inquiries, Miss Manners invites readers to submit questions via her website or through email. This ongoing dialogue about dining etiquette and family expectations highlights the evolving nature of social norms and the importance of communication in maintaining relationships.
Stay tuned for more developments as etiquette continues to adapt in a changing world.
